Don't judge before examine

Don't judge before examine, never heard this sentence but people always do. In the day life we don't know what we usually do, sometimes we didn't realize that we had judged someone else without examined what he/she did before, all the expression we gave right on the spot followed by the emotion at the time we judged others. For example if u have brother or sister, and u know that he/she is consumptive and don't do anything for living, but one day he/she brought a new car, then suddenly u judged he/she stole the car without examined where he/she gets the car. Maybe he/she gets it from lottery, or maybe he/she has helped someone for so long then the person gave him/her a car? who can tell?. Let's say that u r your brother/sister what would u feel if at the time u were judged that u have stolen the car?. let me give u another example, well if u have one line of connection which is shared for 4 persons and pay it together, then someone scolded u because it is so lag at his/her place and keep blaming that u r downloading that makes him/her can't do his/her stuff even though u r not. Well what would u feel? Think of the line is payed evenly by four people. Obviously he/she scolds u because he/she hasn't examined and checked the problem, maybe the connection goes down, or another factor. Are u gonna stay n let he/she scolds u? I don't think so. So please after read all these line, at least we check and examine the problem first before judging others. The one who is judged will not be happy of course.